Do Indian girls like boys?

印度女孩喜欢男孩吗?

 以下是Quora读者的评论：

Shambhavi Choudhary, simple girl

I shall be absolutely honest with this one.

Generally, Indian Women prefer to date Indians.I HAVE seen many relationships where Indian women found love in foreigners and I noticed one thing common which was Infinite Love outcasted every other factor like Race/Nationality/Color

These are the relations where being a or American did not matter.How they connected laid the foundation of love.However, women would prefer to date European,American,Australian,Italian etc than when given a choice.This also depends on the ground of proxmity to meet each other.However I believe that these factors does not matter when you are in true Love.

I would love to date a guy if he were caring,honest and loving

对这个问题，我这里诚实回答

一般来说，印度女性更喜欢和印度男人约会。我见过许多印度女人跟外国人发展恋爱关系，我发现有一个共同的特点，那就是无尽的爱超越了其他所有因素，比如种族、国籍、肤色。

在这些关系中，无论是还是美国人都无关紧要。他们之间的关系奠定了爱的基础。然而，如果有得选的话，女性更愿意和欧洲人、美国人、澳大利亚人、意大利人等约会，而不是。这也取决于彼此的亲近度。但我相信，如果真爱降临，这些全都不重要。

我很想和一个有爱心，诚实，忠贞不渝的男人约会。

Mehak Beyonce

Yes I’d say so.

As a Indian (Punjabi) girl living in Canada I like East Asian guys. It’s because (based off of my guy friends) they are very kind, respectful, handsome, well-dressed (most of the guys), intelligent and loyal. Plus we have a lot of stuff in common in terms of our upbringing, things like education, family, etc.

Indian guys (the ones I grew up with and who I have as friends) are also very intelligent and handsome but I think I just have a preference because I grew up with A LOT of and Japanese people around me plus I have a lot of friends too and they are super kind people! So yes there are Indian girls that only like their own race but for me personally I think I’m more attracted towards East Asian guys.

In conclusion: If ur a East Asian guy (, Korean, Japanese, etc) don’t worry mate there are plenty of Indian girls out there that would go for you!

是的，我同意。

作为一个生活在加拿大的印度(旁遮普)女孩，我喜欢东亚男人。这是因为他们非常善良、尊重人、英俊、穿着得体(大多数男性)、聪明、忠诚。另外，我们在教养方面有很多共同点，比如教育、家庭等等。

印度男人(那些伴随我成长的朋友)也很聪明、英俊，但我想我会有偏爱，我跟许多和日本人一起长大，我还有很多朋友，他们是超级好的人！是的，有些印度女孩只喜欢自己的族裔，但就我个人而言，我更喜欢东亚男人。

总之：如果你是一个东亚男人(、韩国人、日本人等等)，别担心，伙计，有很多印度女孩会喜欢你的！

Aditya Simha (’ve set several friends up in successful relationships

Some of the answers here appear to be a bit too blunt, and discouraging. Generally speaking, it will be tough to get an Indian girl to relocate to , and similarly, it’ll be very hard for you to relocate to India. Your best option is to try to meet an Indian (or Indian origin) girl in another country - say, the US, UK, Singapore, Hong Kong, Malaysia, etc. That way, you and she can both reside in a neutral country, and possibly visit /India on trips.

I must say that you certainly have a chance if you’re able to meet an Indian girl and get to know her. You should be careful not to just go and woo any girl you find attractive - get to know the person first, and obviously, there has to be a fit between you both. You can certainly learn Hindi (but bear in mind, that there are at least 25 more languages spoken throughout India), so depending on who the girl is, you may have to learn a different language altogether.

I’ve seen many married couples who are /Indian (both couplings, i.e. male /female Indian and male Indian/female ). So. it’s not an impossible task for such a marriage to occur, but from what I can tell, all of these couples met at and live in a different country other than or India.

So, all the best! I hope you’re able to meet a nice girl and have a mutually cordial life together.

这里的一些答案似乎有些过于生硬，令人沮丧。一般来说，让一个印度女孩搬到生活很难，同样，你也很难搬到印度去生活。最好是在其他国家(如美国、英国、新加坡、香港、马来西亚等)结识印度女孩(或印度裔女孩)。这样，你和她可以居住在一个中立的国家，去/印度旅行。

如果你能遇到一个印度女孩并了解她，你肯定有机会。你要小心，别看谁漂亮就去追—要先了解这个人，很明显，你们俩之间必须有一种默契。你当然可以学习印地语(但请记住，印度境内至少还有25种以上的语言)，对不同的姑娘，你可能需要学习一门完全不同的语言。

我见过很多跟印度的跨国夫妇(男/印度女和印度男/女的组合都有)。所以。这样的婚姻并非不可能，但据我所知，这些夫妇都是在或印度之外的国家相识和生活的。

所以，祝你一切顺利！我希望你能遇到一个不错的女孩，一起幸福地生活。

Pinky Sunel, works at Citigroup

I normally talk to anyone if at all first thing to understand their personality and their minds and cultural/non cultural beliefs. If the guy has a good sense of humor, is kind and humble then I am already 90% attracted to this Guy. From my interactions with men (at work and at school etc), I found that most men are very humble, hardworking, intelligent, respect women and respect elders, and modest and mostly simple. With all this I find I am always attracted to men mainly because of these personality attributes. When it comes to looks, most women don't care unless its a very extreme (like extremely skinny or extremely obese etc). We first love a mind and soul and then also love a body. Also there are many men who look amazing too!!!

我跟别人交谈，首先了解他们的性格、思想和文化/非文化信仰。如果他有幽默感，善良谦逊，那么我90%就会被他吸引。从我与男性的交往中(在工作和学校等场所)，我发现大多数男性都非常谦虚、勤奋、聪明、尊重女性和长辈、基本上很单纯。所以我总是被男人吸引。说到外表，大多数女性并不在意，除非是非常极端的情况(比如非常瘦/胖等)。我们首先爱的是思想和灵魂，然后才爱上他的身体。还有很多男人看起来也很棒!!

Anna Mae, lived in India

I really want a guy…!! I just love them!!!

Im Ananya.. An indian gal.

If any boy is intrested in me can you please contact me???

I really want a guy.. I've always been dreaming ofhaving

我真的想找一个男人…!!我就是喜欢他们!!

我是Ananya . .一个印度女孩。

如果有男孩对我感兴趣，可以联系我哟??

我真的想要一个男孩…我一直梦想拥有

Naughty Penguin

Just understand one thing about Indians … Indians are one of the most racist people in the world (including Indian girls !

Were You a White Man Indian girls would be bending over backwards or falling at Your feet but if You are a Black or Mongoloid You have close to zero chances !

印度人是世界上种族歧视最严重的民族之一(包括印度女孩!)

若你是白人，印度女孩可能会拜倒在你的脚下，但若你是黑人或蒙古人，你基本就没机会了!

Gouri Sharma

Well…I do love guys if they r nice with good personality .My dad used to work with a company so during some occasions I met 2 guys I loved them seriously one was my crush and I'm sure they were interested in me too I caught them staring at me but I was in high school and my dad was their boss so..couldn't do anything i regret it!!

嗯，只要人品好，我喜欢男人的。我爸爸曾经跟一家公司合作，我在某些场合遇到了两个男人，我真的很爱他们，其中有一个我简直一见钟情，我相信他们对我也很感兴趣，我发现他们会盯着我看，但当时我才上高中，我爸爸是他们的老板，啥都不能做，我挺后悔的!!

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Sreetama Nayek, IT Professional, Traveller , Book Lover

Before writing the answer, I would like you to know it's more on general observation, and may vary with a specific person.

In general, when Indian women date outside their race, South-east or East Asian guys are not in top list. The preferences are in general as below (not in any order)-

1.European men (specially Italian, French or Greek)

2.North American

3.Middle-eastern

4.Aussie/Kiwi

Very few women will date a guy or an African guy. South African or Latinos may have a slight chance.

From my personal view, I would prefer Europeans, their dating culture is quite appreciable.

在回答之前，希望你能知道，这更多的是基于大体观察，可能会随着具体的人而变化。

一般来说，当印度女性与其他种族的男性约会时，东南亚或东亚的男性并不在首选之列。首选项一般如下(不分前后顺序)-

1.欧洲男人(特别是意大利人、法国人或希腊人)

2.北美男人

3.中东男人

4.澳大利亚/新西兰男人

很少有女人愿意和男人或非洲男人约会。南非人和拉丁美洲人可能有一点机会。

在我个人看来，我更喜欢欧洲人，他们的约会文化非常值得欣赏。

Aswin Ottapilavil, Indian

hi, from what i know i thing there are lots of Indian women who really like Asian men. A lot of Asian based celebrities are popular among Indian girls and these are lots of korean drama, K pop, anime, movies fan girls in India.

But i have to say Indian women does care about your job and qualifications and all but as far as i know its similar in as well, just be confident and go for it :)

嗨，据我所知，很多印度女性非常喜欢亚洲男性。很多亚洲明星在印度女孩中很受欢迎，韩剧、韩流、动漫、电影的印度粉丝非常多。

但我不得不说，印度女性确实会在意你的工作和资历，而且据我所知，女性也很关心这一点，只要有信心，那么就去争取吧。

Sashank Reddy, works at Neato Robotics

Well, the odds are stacked against you. The Indian girls are really smart and don’t really like the idea of Learning or settling down in . They are highly logical when it comes to their marriage. For you to settle here, you have to make too many compromises and getting Indian citizenship is one of the hardest things. Things get even more complicated when you need consider the current relations between the two countries. To put things in context, we have issues wooing girls from other states with language and communication problem. Not to mention the caste system. If the guys here have so much issues, you need extra effort at every step.

With all that being said, you never know when you might find someone who is that open minded. But be prepared to enter a world of hurt. Great many have lost their lives chasing girls here. In any case I am going to tell you bluntly that most girls will not agree to the idea of relocating to at the very least

嗯，你的机会并不多。印度女孩非常聪明，她们不喜欢学习中文或者在定居。她们在婚姻问题上很有想法。你若想在这里定居，得做出太多的妥协，而获得印度国籍是非常困难的事情。考虑到两国目前的关系，情况就更复杂了。从整体来看，我们在吸引其他国家的女孩时遇到了语言和沟通方面的问题。更不用说种姓制度了。如果这里的人有这么多问题，你的每一步都需要额外的努力。

话虽如此，你永远不知道你会在什么时候遇到这样一个思想开放的人。但是要准备好进入一个充满伤害的世界。很多人在这为了追求女孩而失去了生命。无论如何，我要坦率地告诉你，大多数女孩是不会同意移居的。

William Yeung, lives in Hong Kong

I found that quite a number of indian girls married men. So I think that some indian girls do like boys.

我发现相当多的印度女孩嫁给了男人。所以说一些印度女孩确实喜欢男孩。

Anonymous

I mean, Indian girls like whoever they want to, lol. There’s no specific formula to who likes who. Any guy that seems like a compassionate one, who looks well-off, is simply more desirable to a woman.

A woman wants someone they can lean on. Someone who listens to them. Someone who respects them. Race isn’t a barrier.

I don’t know love very well. I’m still a teenager, about to hit young adulthood, etc. But I can tell you from experience that, one of my crushes that was an Indian girl, ended up dating this guy.

Now, I’m an Indian-American, but just letting you know, interracial dating is completely fine. I’ve dated East Asian girls before, and I really like how the Asian-Americans are. Maybe it’s just me. Probably not though.

印度女孩想喜欢谁就喜欢谁，哈哈。谁喜欢谁没有特定的公式。任何看起来富有同情心的男人对女人来说都更有吸引力。

女人希望找到一个可以依靠、愿意倾听她们、尊重她们的人。种族不是障碍。

我不太懂爱。我还是个十几岁的孩子，马上就要成年了。但是我可以从我的经历告诉你，我曾暗恋的一个印度女孩，最后和男孩约会了。

我是印度裔美国人，但你要知道，跨种族的约会完全没问题。我以前也和东亚女孩约会过，我很喜欢亚裔美国人。也许只有我是这样的。也可能不是。

Anonymous

I do. I think many have qualities that are often overlooked, especially in western media…as an Indian girl this is relatable. In general lots of E/S.E Asian males are good- natured, mannered, talented, and hard-working. I also think many have nice hair and eyes

我同意。我认为很多女孩都有一些经常被忽视的品质，尤其是在西方媒体中……作为一个印度女孩，这是可以理解的。一般而言，东南亚和东亚男性的品性好，有礼貌，有才华，工作努力。很多人也有漂亮的头发和眼睛。

Zimik Nim

By reading all the comments here, I came to know that Indians are racist and still having all those old stereotypes. I have seen many Indian girls married to or mongoloid traits. Its a personal choice. Yes, Indians girls are not liberal like other countries and this is not a good sign. Believe me ,all these stupid stereotype kind of mindset will be vanished once the nation is fully developed. No offense. Thanks.

阅读这里的评论后，我发现印度人是种族主义者，仍然持有那些陈旧的刻板印象。我见过许多嫁给或蒙古人的印度女孩。这纯属个人选择。是的，印度女孩不像其他国家那样自由，这不是一个好迹象。相信我，一旦国家完全发展起来，所有这些愚蠢的刻板印象就会消失。我没有恶意。谢谢。

Riya Kalki

It is all about personal preference of course but if I had to generalize I would say that unless they are open minded the initial attraction may not necessarily be there. I’m saying this purely on a societal mental conditioning basis. In India the ideal beauty standards for men is for them to be very muscular and usually have a beard and just be very stereotypically ‘masculine’. Of course everyone’s tastes in men are different but the traits I mentioned are what most Bollywood stars have. These standards really do not match up with those of East Asians who for example are always expected to be completely cleanly shaven. That is not to say that no Indian woman will ever like a man or find him attractive. Not only are attractive qualities different for everyone but a lot of the times once you get to know people that aren’t your usual type they surprise you and you fall for them. All in all, don’t be disheartened by anything you read on sites like these because everyone is different and no 2 people have the same opinion.

当然，这完全是个人偏好的问题，但如果必须进行概括，我会说，除非他们思想开放，否则最初的吸引力都可能不一定存在。我说这些纯粹是基于社会心理条件。在印度，男性美的标准是肌肉发达，通常有胡子，要充满“男子气概”。当然，每个人对男人的品味是不同的，但我提到的特点是大多数宝莱坞明星都有的。这些标准与东亚人的标准并不相符，例如，东亚人总是把胡子刮得干干净净。我不是说印度女人都不会喜欢男人。每个人的魅力不尽相同，而且很多时候，你认识的不同类型的人会给你带来惊喜，你会爱上他们。总而言之，不要因为你在这样的网站上读到的任何东西而沮丧，因为每个人都是独一无二的，没有两个完全一样的人。

Anonymous

Everyone has their own view, but it really depends on where you’re coming from. Generally, in countries like Singapore and Malaysia, it is more known as common. Personally, I’m seeing a guy, and there really isn’t much of a problem. Heck yes, I’m absoloutely attracted to guys, I’ve actually never settled for an Indian guy. There has been times where I would find an Indian guy attractive, but that would be it, I usually would never pursue anything further. I guess it’s just a personal preference. Nothing is impossible. Don’t be discouraged, love is the greatest of all.

每个人都有自己的观点，但这取决于你来自哪里。一般来说，在新加坡和马来西亚这样的国家，这种情况更为常见。就我个人而言，我就正和一个约会，这真的没什么问题。是的，我完全被男人吸引。有时候我会觉得某个印度男人很有吸引力，但仅此而已。我想这只是个人喜好问题。没有什么事是不可能的。不要灰心，爱是最伟大的。

Nitya Nalamari, Software Engineer

I am ethnically Indian (born and brought up in India) but moved overseas for higher studies.

Co incidentally, the only two guys I have dated were Asians. My first boyfriend was from Taiwan.

To be honest, I never cared for racial preferences. He was nice and caring and we liked each other. This should tell you that there are few Indian women out there who do not care about race or may have affinity towards men.

The cultural upbringing could be a barrier and a lot of Indian women might prefer Indian men because of family and societal expectations. But that is the case with almost every race.

Answering it on a generalized basis is not possible :)

我是印度人(在印度出生和长大)，但为了深造学业而移居海外。

巧的是，我就约会过两个人中，都是亚洲人。我的第一个男朋友来自台湾。

老实说，我从不在乎种族偏好。他很好，很关心我，我们都很喜欢对方。你可以看出，很少有印度女性不关心种族，可能对男性有亲和力。

文化教养可能是个障碍，许多印度女性可能更喜欢印度男性，是因为家庭和社会的期望。但几乎所有种族都是如此。

想要笼统地回答这个问题是不可能。

Vishnu Sevak

If you feel attracted to her go for it.Ask her to cut the family and tradition.Families in India are notorious for being conservative and racist.Marry her and stay in at least its a developed country.

India has too many problems dont come here.Plus if she leaves then go for a white girl of russia,europe or america.I heard there are lot of men who are married to russian women dont you share the same border.

Plus indian women get fat after marriage

如果你觉得她很吸引你，那就追求她吧。让她脱离自己的家庭和传统。印度家庭因保守和种族主义而臭名昭著。娶她，留在生活，至少是个发达国家。

印度有太多的问题，不要到这里来。此外，如果她离开，那就找个俄罗斯、欧洲或美国的白人女孩。我听说有很多男人娶了俄罗斯女人，难道你们没有共同的边界吗？

此外，印度女性婚后会变胖。

Radhika Ramesh, Teaching Assistant in U.K.

No.Indians are conservative people.Predominanrly marriages take place are arranged by The domain parents.it is registered by NetNames is very difficult to even marry person out of caste so your case is very difficily unless you find some one who is very determined.. india marrying a person is like marrying a family.But I have seen in Singapore many Indians marring .

不。印度人是保守的民族。大多数情况下，婚姻是由父母安排的。甚至很难跟同种姓以外的人结婚，所以你的情况是非常困难的，除非你找到一个非常坚定的人。在印度，和一个人结婚就像和整个家庭结婚一样。不过，我在新加坡见过很多印度人和结婚。

Anonymous

Yes - I know many that would. Indian girls prefer to date and marry Indian men but that doesn’t mean they do not find men attractive or desirable. Many people stereotype Indian girls but not many take the time to get to know us. For the most part we love our culture and customs (clothes, food and etc.) but that does not mean most of us are narrow-minded or unwilling to give non-Indian guys a chance.

是的——我知道很多人会。印度女孩更喜欢和印度男人约会和结婚，但这并不意味着她们就不喜欢男人。很多人对印度女孩抱有成见，但没有多少人花时间去了解我们。在很大程度上，我们热爱我们的文化和习俗(衣服、食物等)，但这并不意味着我们大多数人心胸狭窄或不愿给非印度人一个机会。

Siddhant Dogra

Go, ask her instead of asking on quora. However be gentle to her as Indian girls are a bit protective regarding themselves against boys, Be nice to her and you will find yourself with most wonderful women on .Perfect mix of modern and traditional .Best of luck

去问问那个姑娘吧，不要在quora上问。但要对她温柔一点，因为印度女孩会自我保护，免受男孩的伤害，对她好一点，你会发现自己和最优秀的女人在一起，她是现代和传统的完美结合，祝你好运。

Aditya Chhabra, Reading History & Observing 's Rise - Watcher

One of my best friends is ethnically and he’s getting married to an ethnically Indian girl.

So, yes in some cases Indian girls may like boys. We’re talking about more than 2 billion people, making generalizations is very difficult.

我最好的一个朋友是华裔，他和一个印度裔女孩结婚了。

所以，是的，在某些情况下，印度女孩可能喜欢男孩。我们谈论的是超过20亿的人，要一言概之是非常困难的。

Anjan Sarkar, M.Sc Mathematics, University of Kalyani (2015)

I am Indian Boy. So I can say what India Girls like.

India a country where Earning for livelyhood is responsibility of Men only. So Indian Girls/ Womens are not like western girls/womens who can earn for herself and her family. And Indian parents teach and Indian Laws say that girls and womens have only rights but no responsibility/duty. Every responsibility/duty is burdend on Men only.

So india girls always like rich and obideoent men who will give everything and do everything for her and fullfil her all dreams but do not expect anything from Her.

It is our social probolem.

But still we have enumerous noble mothers and sister who voluntarily take responsibilty and do their duty as a family person.

我是印度男孩。所以我知道印度女孩喜欢什么。

印度是一个男人负责养家糊口的国家。所以印度女孩/女人不像西方女孩/女人可以为自己和家人赚钱。印度父母教导孩子，印度法律规定女孩和妇女只有权利，没有责任。责任/义务都只加在男人身上。

所以印度女孩都喜欢富有的男人，他们愿意为她付出一切，为她做任何事，满足她所有的梦想，但不会期望从她身上得到任何东西。

这是我们的社会问题。

但是，我们仍然有许多崇高的母亲和姐妹，她们自愿承担责任，履行作为一个家庭成员的责任。