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印度农村19岁少年和35岁舅妈私奔,双方家人爆发剧烈冲突

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这个世界向来不缺少荒唐事。印度农村一名叫妮图的35岁已婚女子和一名叫艾维德的19岁男孩私奔,随后两家人爆发激烈冲突。妮图和艾维德是远房亲戚。从关系上看,妮图是艾维德舅妈。妮图的丈夫马亚拉姆发现妻子和艾维德私奔后,将艾维德家里一名叫雷可哈的已婚女子劫持为人质,要求艾维德家人归还妮图,否则雷可哈就归自己所有。私奔事件上了印度时报的头条,引起了印度网友的激烈辩论。

原文标题:Villagers clash violently as youth elopes with aunt in Morena district
原文链接:http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/bhopal/Villagers-clash-violently-as-youth-elopes-with-aunt-in-Morena-district/articleshow/13375034.cms

中国和印度:印度农村19岁少年和35岁舅妈私奔,双方家人爆发剧烈冲突

让我们一起私奔吧(三泰虎配图)

BHOPAL: A series of violent clashes started between two families in a village in Morena district after a 35-year-old married woman reportedly eloped with a 19-year-old youth on Saturday morning.

Armed villagers of Khadoli, 26 km from Morena town, allegedly abducted another woman from the youth’s family at a gun point and kept her captive even as some top police officials were on the spot, trying to pacify the situation. Armed with deadly weapons, villagers have been sitting guard since Sunday afternoon demanding the return of the woman who eloped.

博帕尔:星期六早上,据称一名35岁的已婚女子和一名19岁男孩私奔,随后莫雷纳区一个村子的两家人爆发一系列剧烈冲突。

据说离莫雷纳城区26公里远的卡多里村的武装村民,绑架了年轻人家里的另一名女子。即使一些高级警官在现场试图平定事态,那名女子还是被当做了人质。村民配备有致命武器,自从星期天下午以来一直把守,要求归还私奔的妇女。

According to the police, Neetu Shikharwar, mother of two children reportedly eloped with 19-year-old Avdesh Shikharwar. Avdesh and Neetu are distant relatives. Their families reside in the same village and the woman is the youth’s aunt by relation. However, the village with a population of over 5,000 was aware of a love affair between the two. Avdesh works in a diamond cutting unit in Surat in Gujarat and is financially doing well. He had come home from Surat for a few days.

But all hell broke loose when Neetu’s husband Mayaram discovered that his wife for nearly 20 years had eloped with Avdesh who was the neighbour’s son and his nephew. More than 700 men, armed with guns, sticks and sharp-edged weapons gathered at the village where a panchayat was called to address the issue. On Sunday, the panchayat gave its verdict that Neetu was to be traced and returned to her husband by the youth’s family.

警方称,妮图是两个孩子的母亲,她和19岁的艾维德私奔。妮图和艾维德是远房亲戚。两家人居住在同一个村里。从关系上来看,这名女子是少年的舅妈。然而,这个人口超过5000人的村子里的人都知道两者的风流韵事。艾维德在古吉拉特邦苏拉特的一家钻石切割单位工作,待遇还不错。他从苏拉特回家呆几天。

但是当妮图的丈夫马亚拉姆发现结婚快20年的妻子和邻居的儿子、也就是自己的外甥私奔后,一切都乱套了。超过700名持枪、棍棒和锋利武器的男子在村里聚了起来,要求五人长老会出来解决这个问题。星期天,五人长老会裁决要求年轻人的家人找到妮图并归还给她的丈夫。

Avdesh’s family said that the youth was wayward and out of their control. They also did not have information about the couple’s whereabouts. The matter was taken to Devgarh police station where a missing report was filed.

Angry over the police inaction, villagers attacked the youth’s family. A violent armed clash followed between both the families involving more than 1,500 persons with several rounds of firing throughout Sunday. Mayaram Shikarwar led a mob, which entered Avdesh’s house and at gun point abducted a married woman, identified as Rekha. “Bring back my wife or this married woman stays with me,” Mayaram told Avdesh’s parents.

艾维德的家人称艾维德任性,已经失去控制。他们也不知道两人的行踪。这件事被提交给德维伽警察局处理。警察局还签发了一份人口失踪报告。

村民对警察局的迟钝反应感到愤怒,攻击了年轻人的家人。随之双方爆发了激烈的武装冲突。超过1500人卷入其中。整个星期天发生了几起交火事件。马亚拉姆率领一群乌合之众,进入艾维德的房子,用枪绑架了一名叫做雷可哈的已婚女子。马亚拉姆告诉艾维德的父母:“把我的妻子还给我,否者这个女人就是我的了。”

A large contingent of police force was called and senior officers tried to talk to both the sides out of the present crisis. But villagers are adamant – they want Neetu back, failing which Rekha remains with Mayaram. Half the village is guarding the door where they have kept Rekha captive.

DIG Chambal range DP Gupta said on Monday, “The woman who eloped did so on her own. The police cannot help in such a situation. But the abduction of another woman is serious. We have registered a case of kidnapping against 25 persons. Mayaram Shikharwar is the prime accused.”

一大批警察随之赶来。高级警官试图通过对话让双方走出当前危机。但是村民很固执——他们想要妮图回来,如果办不到的话,雷可哈就归马亚拉姆了。村里一半的人守卫关着雷可哈的房子的大门。

古塔星期一称:“私奔的女子是自愿的。警察在这种情况下帮不上忙。但是绑架另一名妇女是严重的。我们对参与绑架的25人提起了诉讼。马亚拉姆是主犯。”

以下是印度网民的评论:

ash (uk)
9 hrs ago (07:58 AM)
what a bunch of useless police . cant even protect someone who is kidnapped:(( mera hidustan mahan :((

多么没用的一群警察,连被绑架的人都保护不了 :((

YS Jagan (Hyderabad)
9 hrs ago (08:08 AM)
Lucky lad… he got an experienced partner.. anyways, she will be back to her husband in few days, and she will continue her extra marital affair with the kid.. Everyone will be happy…Just Chill Chill..

幸运的小伙子…他得到了有经验的伴侣…不管怎么说,她几天后会回到丈夫身边,并且继续与男孩搞婚外情。大家都会开心…

Kris (India)
9 hrs ago (08:10 AM)
The b1tch ruined so many lives.
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这个婊子葬送了许多人的生命

Anshuman Narain (New Delhi) replies to Kris
She got married at the age of 15… I guess at 35 was the only time when she could make a personal choice…

她15岁就结婚…我猜35岁是她唯一可以做出个人选择的时机。

Navi (Bangalore)
Wow. No words to write.

哇,不知道说什么好。

marry at 15 (india)
9 hrs ago (08:45 AM)
she is 35 and married for 20 years?

她35岁,结婚了20年?

think (little) replies to marry at 15
8 hrs ago (09:13 AM)
she was married at the age of 15…

她15岁就结婚啦…

jinx (blore) replies to think
5 hrs ago (12:41 PM)
file a case of child marriage against him and allow the lovers who have eloped to live in peace:)

以童婚的名义起诉马亚拉姆,然后允许私奔的情人平静地生活:)

KS (Bangalore) replies to think
5 hrs ago (12:25 PM)
Mayaram should be first booked for marrying a Minor.

应该首先起诉马亚拉姆娶未成年。

rexlunghar (Lonavala)
This is called barbaric lifestyle in the age of techno!

这就叫科技时代下的野蛮生活方式!

Godisamirage (India)
Dumb A oles. So a guy has run away with a woman. But does kidnapping another lady going to solve the problem. Even if the run away lady comes back,can she live peacefully with such a husband. I am not supporting the lady, but what has happened has happened and further violence is not going to change things.

一个家伙和一名妇女私奔。绑架另一个女人就会解决问题吗。即使跑掉的女人回来后,她又能与这样的丈夫平静相处吗。我不是支持这名女人。不过事情发生了就发生了。进一步付诸暴力不会改变事情。

Sumit (Bangalore)
This shows the condition of our police force.. they know where the lady has been captivated but cant do much beside filing a case of kidnapping

这表明我们警察的状况…他们知道这名女人被绑架在哪里,但是除了以绑架名义起诉,并不能做其他事情。

vinod (delhi)
5 hrs ago (12:13 PM)
Are we living in stone age ?

我们是居住在石器时代吗?

JCM (Muscat)
Love is blind and at times foolish too.. This seems to be a classic example.

爱情是盲目的,有时候也是愚蠢的…这个似乎就是典型的例子。

Dinesh (Hyd) replies to JCM
Love? looks like a clear case of lust to me.

爱情?在我看来,明显是性欲案例

JKris (Pune) replies to Dinesh
Yes it is LUST. Older women do like young Boyz.

是的,是性欲。老女人确实喜欢年轻男孩

Sensible dakoo (Chambal)
5 hrs ago (12:34 PM)
aayaram, gayaram and now Mayaram, tired of the inserting the same for the last 20 years which by now must be limp and exhausted Neetu found youngster Avdesh’s hot and strong, can’t blame her. Avdesh have a nice time and give her back to Mayaram please.

以前是阿亚拉姆、高雅拉姆,现在是马亚拉姆。妮图可能过去20年里厌倦了“同一根”进来,那“根”现在肯定软弱无力了。妮图发现艾维德这个年轻人的那根很“猛烈”。不能怪她。艾维德玩得很开心,请把她还给马亚拉姆吧。

原创翻译:三泰虎 http://www.santaihu.com

ravishankar (bangalore) replies to Sensible dakoo
3 hrs ago (02:13 PM)
When it happens to you, you will understand the pain. Dont make cheap comments.

当这种事情发生在你身上的时候,你就能体会到痛感。别酸言酸语的。

Indian (India)
5 hrs ago (12:41 PM)
Core reason of the issue: Women’s husband didnot satisfy her or He is not strong/manly enough

问题的核心原因:女人的丈夫满足不了她,或者他不够强壮。

JPG (Bangalore) replies to Indian
4 hrs ago (01:21 PM)
you are right. We should advice him to eat Pork to increase his stamina.

你说得对。我们应该建议他吃猪肉,以提高持久力。

Amit Kumar (Mumbai)
5 hrs ago (12:42 PM)
She has been married to this man for 20 years. She is not his property to be returned to him. She should be allowed to decide what she wants to do with her future.
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她和这名男子结婚了20年。她不是这名男子的财产。应该允许她决定自己的未来。

PritpalSingh Anand (Bhavnagar)
It is really a sad story, firstly a 19 year diamond cutter working at Surat having illicit relation with a women nearly twice his age. The society should have acted when they knew about it. Moreover, they have kidnapped a innocent women to taken revenge and people want to protect such a bad act by guarding the place. Who says we are living in the twenty first century. People are still living in the primitive age. It is a shame for the whole village. P.S.Anand

真是一件令人悲伤的故事。首先是一名在苏拉特工作的19岁钻石切割工与年龄几乎是自己两倍的女人有非法关系。这个社会知道这件事时就应该采取行动。更重要的是,他们以绑架一名无辜妇女作为报复。人们却守在那里,护着如此恶行。谁说我们生活在21世纪。人们仍然生活在原始社会。这对整个村子来说是个耻辱。

Jay (Mumbai)
5 hrs ago (12:55 PM)
Stupid guy, he was already getting laid by her, he should have carried on with the previous arrangement , why elope with baggage ?

愚蠢的家伙,他已经得到了她,应该继续像以前一样偷情。为什么要和“这个负担”私奔?

pinku (surat) replies to Jay
1 hr ago (04:48 PM)
Obsolutely right. He could have continued to just enjoy instead putting his life in danger. I have seen so many youths being much more emotional, in turn eloping with married woman and at end being killed. Instead i would suggest “pitch gili karo aur bhul jao”.

完全正确。他应该继续享受,而不是将自己生命置于危险之中。我看过许多更加感情用事的年轻人,他们和已婚女人私奔,结果被杀……

Amrut (Pune)
Simply Bollywood! What more can i say…..

简直是宝莱坞电影嘛!我还能说什么呢…

Kapil Sibal (Sivganga)
4 hrs ago (01:05 PM)
UPA should resign .Shame on Manmohan sigh…such incidents are happening.:)

国民进步联盟政府应该辞职。可耻的曼莫汉·辛格…发生了这样的事情

Earthquake (Bhopal)
4 hrs ago (01:29 PM)
I hope the entire village gets flattened in an earthquake.
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我希望整个村子在一次地震中被夷为平地。

Gaurav Luthra (mumbai)
May be that lady was not happy with her husband. Let her go and enjoy her life, if she wanted. But 4 god sake dont 4gt her children, They need love from village not this killing and war.. Try to understand yar..

也许那名女人不满意她的丈夫。如果她想要,就让她享受去吧。不过看在上帝的份上,别忘记了她的孩子。孩子需要村里的关爱,而不是打打杀杀。试着理解吧…

Robin (Delhi)
4 hrs ago (01:42 PM)
Already read it in indian sex stories….few years back.
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几年前就已经在印度的性爱故事里看过啦……

mk.rajesh76 (chennai)
but hey, when this lady comes back and gets divorced, the husband will have to give her half of his property!!! this is as per our latest divorce laws!!! women are to be worshiped… lol !! what a country we are in!!!

当这名女人回来并离婚后,丈夫将不得不给她一半的财产!这是最新的离婚法规定的!女人是要被崇拜的…哈哈!我们居住在什么国家来着!

Corba (Earth)
4 hrs ago (01:54 PM)
There are two things which needs to judged here. 1. Elder lady ran away with young guy willingly. 2. Villagers abducted an innocent lady against her wish. The first fact may sound immoral but it is done by two adults with mutual consent. There may be a justified reason behind this. Two adults have fundamental right to choose what they feel best for them. Forcing them is no different from what is being followed by Talibans and other backward countries like Somalia. The second fact shows that rural India is backward and no different from Somalia or any uncivilized nation.
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这里有两件事情需要作出判断:1、老女人自愿和年轻人私奔;2、村民绑架一名无辜的女人。第一件事情可能听起来不道德,不过是两个成年人彼此自愿。可能背后有正当理由。两个成年人有选择自己最爱的基本权利。强迫他们无异于塔利班和索马里那样落后国家的所作所为。第二件事情表明印度农村落后,与索马里或者其他不文明国家没有什么不同。

d (mumbai)
4 hrs ago (01:55 PM)
THIS HAPPENS ONLY IN INDIA

只有印度才会发生这样的事情

Sanjeev Kumar (Mumbai) replies to d
In other developed countries 20 yr girls knowingly marry 70, for whatever reasons

在其他发达国家,20岁女孩因为种种原因刻意嫁给70岁的老头

nr (b’lore) replies to Sanjeev Kumar
2 hrs ago (03:19 PM)
there was a case in india where a grandson married his grandmother…the reason given was to look after her better..Also, there are cases where little girls are married to trees and dogs. Such absurdities exist everywhere.

印度有这样一个例子:孙子娶奶奶…给出的理由是为了更好的照顾她…此外,也有小女孩“嫁给”树和狗的例子。到处都有这样的荒唐事。

Tina (India)
Poor kidnapped woman! Police should rescue her immediately.

可怜的被绑架妇女!警察应该立即解救她。

Tomy (Mumbai)
3 hrs ago (01:59 PM)
Its for sure that this women is attracted to this 19 year boy only for sexual satisfaction. Emotionaly there’s nothing a women of 36 years can expect from a 19 year old.
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这名妇女肯定只是因为性满足而恋上19岁男孩。从感情上讲,一名36岁的女人能从19岁男孩那里期望什么。

Pankaj (Bangalore)
3 hrs ago (02:04 PM)
I believe villagers are doing the right thing… if the husband had eloped with a 19 year old girl, everyone had labeled the man as rapist and womanizer. But if woman elopes, everyone says she is adult and she eloped with her own will… why such huge gender bias? Are we really living in 21st century and claim we trust in gender equality?
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我认为村民做得对…如果丈夫和一名19岁的女孩私奔,大家都会给这名男人贴上强奸犯和玩弄女性者的标签。不过如果是女人私奔,大家都说她是成年人,是自愿私奔的…为什么会有这样的性别偏见?我们是否真的生活在21世纪,是否真的相信性别平等?

SHAFI (abudhabi)
3 hrs ago (02:15 PM)
forget the eloping story.how these two villegers have this much wepons in thier possition,what is the job of concerning area police, what they are doing .any sigle guy from the minority cummunity caught by the police for wepon ,he is branded as terrorist.hear whole villagers are not terrorist as per the police n media.good. A mockery of demmocrecy.
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这里不提私奔故事。这些村民怎么会各自有那么多武器。相关地区警察在做什么。警察从少数族裔社区里抓到的任何携带武器的人都被标榜为恐怖分子。按照警察和媒体的说法,整村的村民都不是恐怖分子。真是皿煮的讽刺。

Indian (India)
3 hrs ago (02:30 PM)
What is the use of clashing violently? The man whose wife eloped should find a 19 year old girl, preferably his previous wife’s sister and marry her.

暴力冲突有什么用呢?那名妻子私奔的男人应该找一名19岁的女孩,最好是他前妻的妹妹,然后娶她。

Zokhuma (Aizawl)
3 hrs ago (02:30 PM)
It seems that Neetu married Mayaram at the age of about 15 yrs. and eloped with Avesh 19. after about 20 yrs. of married life. The point to be noted is that within 20 years she had no grown-up son or daughter. She had only 2 children when she eloped. The time element and the children she bore does not coincide. Was she barren for sometime? Or is Mayaram impotent? It is a hypothesis only. I leave for other readers to think.
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似乎妮图15岁左右嫁给马亚拉姆。在经过大约20年的婚姻生活后,她和19岁的艾维德私奔。应该指出的是20年了,她没有成年的儿子或者女儿,私奔时只有两个孩子。结婚时间和孩子的年龄似乎不吻合。她是否有段时间不孕?或者马亚拉姆是否阳痿?这只是假设,就让其他读者思考吧

原创翻译:三泰虎 http://www.santaihu.com

Mayur Trivedi (Baroda)
3 hrs ago (02:33 PM)
Leave the woman alone. She wants a new beginning. Living with a young man will help rejuvinate her heath & life. She will be more happy than living with her old stupid husband. Villagers should mind their own business.

别管这名女人。她想要开始新生活。与年轻男人一起生活可以帮助她的生活恢复活力。相比与愚蠢的丈夫生活在一起,她会过得更开心。村民不应该管闲事。

Mannangatti Balu (India)
1 hr ago (04:13 PM)
I am just wondering what would have happened if Neetu’s husband had eloped with Rekha. Will Neetu take captive of Rekha’s husband and live with him? My worry is I don’t have an aunt to elope with!
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我只是纳闷:如果妮图的丈夫和雷可哈私奔会怎么样呢。妮图是否会把雷可哈的丈夫当做人质,并和他生活在一起?我的担心是自己没有可以私奔的舅妈!

Kalu (India) replies to Mannangatti Balu
47 mins ago (05:08 PM)
Eloping is bad idea! Sleeping is ok
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私奔不是好主意!睡一下没问题。

Rahul (Gujarat) replies to Mannangatti Balu
1 hr ago (04:51 PM)
No, Rekha’s husband would have taken Neetu captive and lived with her.

不,雷可哈的丈夫将会把妮图当做人质,并和她生活在一起。

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