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印度男人评论女人(二)

2014-03-23 20:02 13个评论 字号:

男人老想躲着点的几种女人,分别是缠人型、我字当头型、我最棒型、话匣型和猜我心型。据信,所有男人最害怕的就是缠人型女人。她们不时地唠叨想嫁人,想得什么都不顾了。缠 人性格是个大杂烩,综合了不安全感、独霸感和其它一些自尊问题。一般说来,只有当男女关系相当久了,男人才最终认出这类女人。尽管这类女人初看起来客观公 正,但一旦关系确定,感觉吹不了了,于是贪婪本性开始显露。

译者:ken
来源:http://bbs.santaihu.com/thread-8354-1-1.html
外文:http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relationships/man-woman/5-types-of-women-men-should-avoid/articleshow/18809609.cms

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Excuse (Location)

My experience : 1. Women who don’t respect marriage as a marriage. Why ? Honestly there weren’t these many divorces back then. Now its like women have become too choosy : firstly a bread, then sweet bread, then fruit bread, then a cake, then a cool pastry … its like never ending … !! Adjusting in marriage is key word followed by patience… ( if not … peaceful divorce no matter what happens … no DV act or 498a please ) 2. Now the word ‘independent women’ is good when they know their limits, no limits is a big worry …. for men to control her wife … ! How can you know this … If she is too childish … stay away these girls, they are not only worthless but also dangerous … ! mostly they will file 498a. 3. Women who wants to compete with her own husband… not right … ! she has entire world to compete with .. ! why pick on her own husband to compete with .. .? Why to showcase who is earning what and who has better job … ? 4. Women who lies, very dangerous ( no matter what may come … make sure you avoid these women) …. they will not only get into troubles but also will drag into troubles … ! 5. Women call themselves modern…. !! (Strange but true … ) there is nothing a men will like if he gets to know her wife is too modern … !! guys love their mom’s and we want to see our mom’s reflection of love in our wives … so why modern …. ! Dosn’t make any sense … ! 6. Women who cant merge with your family….. ( keep aside splitting families – they are the worst kind ) We heard tales that womens heart is the biggest and the most wonderful thing … but what if they cannot accommodate her own in-laws in her heart … ! Honestly Stay away … b’coz she will squeeze your life to little rat hole … ! 7. Women who likes to keep on counting money…. well dont like to spend or help her own family members… !! I, ME , MYSELF … ( world she makes so small that breathing becomes difficult ) 8. Love …. am not talking about sex … I dont know when people have changed word meaning of love to sex …. I mean, purely love towards kids, love towards elderly & people around her married life .. is something which every man looks in a married women … ! ( some one has to call it as OLD JAM …. well life will become beautiful if your wife loves in & around things as her belongings… trust me ) 9. Now the most important thing …. Husband is what a husband is .. and what he will be .. dont expect biig changes in him after marriage … and like wise … wife will be wife cant expect biig changes in her too … but little talks in park between husband and wife should help them to patch gaps else life becomes miserable …. ! 10. Planning … See women wants a house, a car and what not … ! remember we studied ” ROME WAS NOT BUILD IN A DAY” .. it takes time to settle down …women please understand … ! I am not a women hater … I respect women…! Just want every women & men to be happy in their marriage….! TA TA !

我的体验:1,女人不把婚姻当回亊。为什么这么说?老实说,以前可没有这么多的离婚。现在女人好象变得太挑剔了:先只要面包,后来要甜面包,再后来水果面包,又变成糕点,再又变成高级酥油糕点…好象永远没完…!!自我调整,在婚姻关系中是个关键词,接下来就是耐心…(如果没有…和平分手,不管发生了什么…别跟我提离婚法案,也别提498a条款)。2,自立女人是个好词,如果她们知道在那儿打住,过了头,就成了让男人头大的问题…怎么才能管住老婆…!你怎么能知道…要是她太孩子气…离她们远点。她们非但一文不值,而且还有危险…! 她们通常会以498a条款来起诉你。3,女人要跟老公争高低…不对啊…!满世界都可以去争啊…! 干吗只盯住老公呢…!干吗要炫耀谁挣多少、谁的工作更好…? 4,撒谎的女人,很危险,(不管后来会怎样…确保离她们远点)…她们不但会卷入麻烦,而且会把人拖进麻烦…!5,自诩为现代化的女人…!!(奇怪但当真…) 当男人知道他老婆太摩登,那他是一点也喜欢不起来…!男人爱他们的母亲,也想老婆能折射出母亲的那种关爱来。所以,为什么要现代化的…! 根本说不通啊…!6,与你家人合不到一块的女人…!(把破裂的家庭先放到一边–它们是最差的)。我们听过这样的故事:女人的心 最宽大、最美好…可是,要是她的心里连自己的婆家人都容不下呢…!坦率地说,离她远点…因为她会把你的生活逼到小耗子洞里去…! 7,喜欢不停算计钱的女人…嗯,连花点钱替她娘家人帮帮忙都不行…!!只知道我、我、我…(把世界搞得这么小,连气都喘不过来)。8,爱…不是说性爱…不知道什么时候人们把爱的意思弄成做爱了…我的意思是,纯粹的对孩子们的爱、对长辈们的爱、对婚后生活中身边人的爱…这是每个男人都想从娶来的女人身上找到的东西…! (有人肯定会说,那是陈年烂谷子啦…不过我要说,如果你老婆把她身边里里外外的东西当作自己的东西来爱,那么生活就会变得美好…相信我)。9,现在说最重要的事情…老公就是老公…他以后会怎样…别指望他结婚后会大改样…同样…老婆就是老婆…也不能指望她有多大变化…不过,时不常的到公园里谈一会, 应当有助消除隔阂,要不然日子就惨啰…!10,订计划…看啊,女人要座别墅、要辆小车,什么不要?…!记得我们听说过,“一口吃不成胖子”…要时间,慢慢安顿…女人请理解…我不是个怨恨女人的家伙…我尊重女人…只是希望每个女人和男人都有幸福的婚姻生活…!谢谢!

Ravi (India)

How is it a news in any way?

这怎么成新闻了呢?

Priyankaa Collins (Location)

TGIF! Thank god its five we can think of atleast fifty type of men to avoid just off the cuff! This is soooo chauvinistic to think women can be labelled and boxed. I thought we were very complex creatures with moods and moments

多谢上帝,只有五种。随随便便就能想出至少五十种要避开的男人。这也太大男子沙文主义了,以为女人可以打上标签、分类包装。我想我们是非常复杂的造物,人有情绪好坏,喜怒哀乐

Rana (Hell) replies to Priyankaa Collins

Actually men are less choosy and adjustable!!!! They usually get along with “Most” of the type of women!!

事实上男人沒那么挑剔並能自我调整!!!他们能与大多数类型的女人好好相处!!

Meghraj Khedkar (Mumbai)

Anxieties and concerns and about one’s close relationships could prove to be a chronic stressor that can compromise immunity, a new study has found. In the study, researchers asked married couples to complete questionnaires about their relationships and collected saliva and blood samples to test participants’ levels of a key stress-related hormone and numbers of certain immune cells. The research focused on attachment anxiety. Those who are on the high end of the attachment anxiety spectrum are excessively concerned about being rejected, have a tendency to constantly seek reassurance that they are loved, and are more likely to interpret ambiguous events in a relationship as negative. Married partners who were more anxiously attached produced higher levels of cortisol, a steroid hormone that is released in response to stress, and had fewer T cells – important components of the immune system’s defense against infection – than did participants who were less anxiously attached. “Everyone has these types of concerns now and again in their relationships, but a high level of attachment anxiety refers to people who have these worries fairly constantly in most of their relationships,” Lisa Jaremka, lead author of the study and a postdoctoral fellow in Ohio State University’s Institute for Behavioral Medicine Research (IBMR) said. Though some scientists theorize that attachment anxiety can be traced to inconsistent care during one’s infancy, Jaremka noted that there is also research-based evidence that people with attachment anxiety can change. The study is set to be published in the journal Psychological Science.

一项新的研究发现,由关系密切的人引起的焦虑、耽忧,可能表现为一种长期压力,导致免疫功能下降。调查中,研究人员要求已婚夫妇填写各种涉及他们婚姻关系的表格。並收集了受试者唾液和血样,用以测试。测试体内与紧张情绪关联最密切的荷尔蒙、还有某几种免疫细胞的水平。研究集中于依恋焦虑。那些处于依恋焦虑测量值高端的人过于耽忧是否被排斥。他们往往不断地寻求对方保证,仍然爱他(她)。这些人也更可能把婚姻关系中难以辨白的事情作负面理解。与受试人员中依恋焦虑度较低的人相比,依恋焦虑度高的人分泌的皮质醇浓度也更高;而T细胞的数量更少。作为对精神压力的反应,人体分泌皮质醇,它是一种类固醇荷尔蒙;而T细胞则是免疫系统抵御外来感染的一个重要一成分。“在婚姻关系中,每个人都不时会有这类耽忧,但是高度依恋焦虑,是指哪些在他们婚姻生活大部分时间里,几乎无法摆脱这种焦虑的人们” 俄亥俄州立大学行为医学研究学院博士后研究员,该调查报告的第一作者,Lisa Jaremka说道。尽管有些科学家从理论上解释:依恋焦虑的原因,可以追溯到儿时未得到好好照看;Jaremka 也注意到,也有研究证明,有依恋焦虑的人们也是可以改变的。这项调查就要在《心理科学杂志》上发表。

Lokesh (Delhi)

Aaah … I wish men had the luxury of avoiding 5 women, and get to choose the 6th one ! Women are actually scarce, so men have little choice ..

啊…我希望男人有这种奢华:能够避开这五种女人,挑选第六种!实际上,女人太少,因此男人没什么可选…

samson ernakuam (ernakulam)

Life is a DRAMA- no difference for men and women-ACT and Finish

人生如做戏–男女都一样–上演、下㘯

Abby Normal (Unknown)

They are not scarce, men are too choosy, they aspect the wife to be pure, intelligent, clean, from a good family, hard working, same cast, light colour and many other demands. The more you demand, the less is available, or reduced choice.

女人並不少,男人太挑剔。他们期待的老婆是纯洁、聪明、干净利落、出身好人家、吃苦肯干、种姓门当户对、皮肤白晰,还有更多其它要求。要求拔越高,可人儿越少,或者说,选择范围越小。

Anuj Sharma (Chennai)

o God why have u made them and sent on earth????????????

啊, 上帝,干吗创造人类並把它们送到地球上????

Rajiv Saxena (Unknown)

Very true.

讲得真对

manjunath gummisetty (Chennai)

why not all?

干吗不避开所有女人?

Subash Chandra Dash (bhubaneswar)

There are many more points.Analyse is the character of love.

有许多可取之处。解读了爱的特征。

Rajiv (Toronto)

avoid women. they are not worth it.

躲开女人,她们不值。

Manish Kumar (New Delhi, India)

Its negative. I think you should come up with a topic as five women a man should marry.

负面文章。我觉得你该写个这样的话题:男人应该娶的五种女人。

anonymous (India)

add…498a types….i.e. the girls with bipolar personality disorder…

加上…498a类型的…就是有人格分裂征的女人…

miguel juan (Goa)

Lol this is true but funny as well!!! we learnt our mistakes the hard way and now this is an easy guide!!!

好笑,既真实又搞笑!!通常我们要付出沉重代价才买到教训, 这可是个轻松的指导!!!

Srinivas Bangalore (Bangalore)

good article….. looks like a survival kit for us

好文章…看起来象给我们的一整套救生指导

maverick (delhi)

how do u get rid of miss clingy type of women??

怎样才能甩掉缠绕型女人??

Abby Normal (Unknown) replies to Srinivas Bangalore

Yes, you are right, next week they may publish one telling the same story for the husbands! A survival kits will perhaps include an inflatable wife, they do not speak, need no food, just a bycicle pump to create the right pressure, and just occasionaly repairs the holes.

是啊,你提得对。下星期他们可能会就此发一篇给老公们的指导文章。一套救生指导也许会包括一个充气娃,她们不说话、不吃饭、仅仅一个自行车打气筒,充到适当压力即可。只是偶尔要补一下窟窿。

PROTONU BANERJEE (Kolkata)

these five types are applicable for men too ..men also are selfish and wicked .

这五种类型也适用于男人…男人同样自私、缺德。

ayushjohnian1 (bangalore)

Hahahaha the author just mentioned all types of girls.. now what boys will do?

哈哈哈哈,作者提到了所有类型的女人…现在男人该咋办?

ayushjohnian1 (bangalore)

Actually the author just mentioned almost all type of girls here… Don’t worry .. when love will struck you.. these things won’t matter..

实际上作者在这儿提到了几乎所有类型的女人…别耽心…当爱情袭来时…这些都挡不住…

Shashikanth Balepura (Bangalore)

By the time one tries to find what type your girlfriend or wife is, you would have forgotten yourself and will be thinking what is my type.

当谁试着找出他女友或老婆归哪一类时,他会忘了自已是谁,在想,我是哪一类。

Shalini (Online) replies to ayushjohnian1

hey, the author is just exaggerating 🙂

嘿,这作者就是在胡吹

Ayush Jain replies to Shalini

Ya I know.. Gals are lil difficult to understand.. but if u r honest n show true love.. then no worries.. u’ll be happy couple…

是,我知道…女人不大好理解…但如果你坦率,並拿出真爱来…那就不用耽心…你们会成为幸福一对…

to.rahil.anwar ()

It really difficult to stay away from women lol 😉 . think many times before loving them as life will be a hell if the are physco.

没有女人独处真是很难,笑;)爱上之前,要再三思量,要是她心理不正常,那可是地嶽般的日子。

Krishna Kumar (Nepal)

Not only five, there are even more than that number of women whom men should avoid and stay away from them.

不止五种,还有更多种女人男人要躲开。

apsingh180 (punjab)

WHY ONLY 5 TYPES,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,AVOID ALL TYPES OF WOMAN,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,CONSIDERING THE LAWS IN FAVOUR OF WOMAN……………………….& GROSS MISUSE OF THESE DRACONIAN LAWS BY THEM TO HARASS THEIR HUSBANDS……………………

为什么只有五种……避开所有类型的女人,,,想想吧,法律是向着女人的,,,,还有,她们严重滥用这些苛法,来折磨老公,,,

Vivek (India)

How to know her type in an arranged marriage? Most marriages are arranged in India, and we get to know “her type”, when you can never go back! Its true that behind every successful man is a woman, and its also a bitter truth that behind every failed/unsuccessful man is also a woman!

父母包办婚姻,怎么能知道她是哪一类?在印度,大多数是包办婚姻,当知道她属哪种时,你已经再也不能回头了!每个成功的男人背后都有个女人,这是对的;还有个痛苦的事实是:每个失败/不成功的男人背后也有个女人。

py (hyd)

Jian khn=Miss clingy

Jian khn=缠绕的女人

Ghanshyam (Bokaro steel city)

infact every type of women should be avoided if men want to live happy in long term

实际上,要长远活得快乐,男人要避开所有女人

Sanjay (Washington DC)

I think most ladies fall into “Miss read my mind”, they always think we have some kind of telepathic powers. I think they are worst one and should be avoided but you see no sign of this before marriage.

我认为大多数女人可归为“懂我心”一类,她总认为男人有心灵感应术。我想这是最次的一类了,要避开。但婚前又看不出来。

Rajiv (Toronto) replies to Ghanshyam

how true. every woman falls into at least one of the categories listed by the author. speaking from experience.

真对。就我经历来说,每个女人都可以归入至少,作者所列的,一类中去。

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