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包办婚姻流行的10大理由

印度的婚姻被一大堆 蒙人的鬼话包围着。因此,尽管他们说婚姻天配,但毕竟恋人对儿还得一块回到地面上来。在最终安顿並决定系结姻缘前,大多数女子常常梦想着墮入情河,与她们 的白马王子待在一起。但我们认为包办婚姻也可能是一件很棒的好亊,不象自由恋爱,成交不象看起来那么难。下面是为什么包办婚姻流行的10大理由。

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10 Reasons Why Arranged Marriages are a Hit

包办婚姻流行的10大理由

Marriages in India are surrounded by a whole lot of hoopla. So, even though they say that marriages are made in heaven, the couple has to come together on earth, after all. Most women often dream of falling in love and being with their prince charming, before they finally settle down and decide to tie the knot. But we think arranged marriages could be quite a cool thing too where sealing the deal isn't as tough as it seems, like in love marriages. Here are 10 reasons why arranged marriages are a hit.

印度的婚姻被一大堆蒙人的鬼话包围着。因此,尽管他们说婚姻天配,但毕竟恋人对儿还得一块回到地面上来。在最终安顿並决定系结姻缘前,大多数女子常常梦想着墮入情河,与她们的白马王子待在一起。但我们认为包办婚姻也可能是一件很棒的好亊,不象自由恋爱,成交不象看起来那么难。下面是为什么包办婚姻流行的10大理由。

Family bonding: Arranged marriages are usually done with the support of the families where both the involved parties are of the same religion and follow similar rituals and rules which make it easier for the families to bond. After all Indian marriages are never really just an alliance between the boy and the girl, they’ve always been family affairs. And marriages are known to bring families together for the fun that unfolds.

家庭亲和力:通常,包办婚姻得到家庭支持,而这些家庭中有关双方信奉同一宗教、遵循相似礼仪、规则,这使得这些家庭更易结合。总之,印度婚姻从来不单单是男、女青年间的结盟,而始终属于整个家庭的事情。而且大家知道,婚姻是为了即将展开的快乐而把两个家庭拉到一起。

Socially acceptable: Arranged marriage set-ups are socially acceptable since the boy and girl have been chosen after detailed research not only about their career and financial prospects, but also that of their families' and relatives. So you’ve got everyone agreeing to the match and making merry.

社会接受:包办婚姻形式被社会接纳,是因为被选中的男女青年不仅他们本人,而且他们的家庭和亲属的职业和经济前景也被细致地研究过了。因此,这个匹配和欢宴,你得到了所有人的同意。

A fresh start: If you’ve ever been in a bad relationship or had a long standing one that didn’t work out, this is your chance to start afresh and wipe the slate clean. In arranged marriages, the couple usually knows very little about the other, so your past won’t bother your present much and you can make a fresh start into a new life.

新的开始:如果你曾有过不快的、或经历了一段长长而又不成功的关系,那这就是你重新开始、擦新画板的机会。在包办婚姻中,这对新人往往不很了解对方,因此你的过去不会对你的现在有多大妨碍,于是你可以重新开启一个新生活。

Mutual respect: In a setup, where your parents choose the groom, they make sure they select only the best. And that means you both can have a mutual admiration society without judging each other. After all every relationship requires a certain amount of respect and arranged marriages are the best situations to instil that.

互相尊重:在你父母挑选新郎的计划中,他们确保只选最棒的。而且那意味着你俩可以有个互相赞美的社会关系,不用互相判别。毕竟,每个婚姻关系需要一定程度的尊重,而包办婚姻是灌输尊重的最佳场合。

Commitment: In arranged marriages, everything is serious. You’ve got families involved and nothing stays just between the couple, thus the level of commitment is way more. So if you are one of those who is troubled by the fact that anyone can break your heart, perhaps you could opt for an arranged marriage.

承诺:在包办婚姻中,每件事都是认真的。家庭介入,而沒哪件事只是那一对儿之间的亊,如此这承诺水平就大大提高。因此,如果你属于那类受如下实情困扰的人 - 谁都能让你心碎,也许你可以选择包办婚姻。

Date and Discover: In arranged marriages, since the couple doesn’t know each other that well, they get a chance to date each other after marriage and discover themselves and their relationship. It keeps the spark in their relationship alive and makes it more interesting to slowly get to know your partner.

约会和发现:在包办婚姻中,由于这对儿相互並不很了解,他们有机会在婚后约会,发现了解他们自己以及他们的婚姻关系。这使得他们关系中火花不断,也让慢慢了解伴侶变得更有趣。

Appropriate Differences: The first and foremost condition of looking for the right suitor in arranged marriages is to see to it that there’s an appropriate age difference where the prospective groom is older then the bride, earns more than her and is at least a few inches taller. This may be a male chauvinistic attitude, but in the long run, it does help since men do have big egos that require stoking.

适当分歧:在包办婚姻中,寻找合适的求婚者的第一和最重要的条件是,看看有无恰当的年龄差别,准新郎大过新娘、比她挣得多而且至少要高出几英寸。这也许是大男子态度,但从长远计,这确实有帮助,因为男人确实具有需要拨旺的高大自尊。

Financial stability: Financial stability is another factor that’s of prime importance in arranged marriages. This also makes sure that your future life-partner is not a drunkard, a jobless loser or someone who will resort to taking rash decisions.

经济稳定:经济稳定是包办婚姻中另一个头等重要的因素。这也确保你将来一生的伴侶不是个酒鬼、失业的落泊货,或者是个会诉诸草莽决定的家伙。

Same set of values: Since arranged marriages are done after taking into consideration every aspect of life, the couple usually end up having the same set of values and beliefs.

同一套价值观:由于包办婚姻是在考虑了生活的方方面面后才定下的,因此这对人儿通常最终有着同一会价值观和信仰。

No trial and errors: Unlike dating, arranged marriage is the final step and there isn’t a trial and error policy. If you are in it, it is for good and there’s no scope for trying it out for a while and taking it forward only if you like it. You have to seal the deal and then do whatever you want to.

不用试好试坏:与约会不同,包办婚姻是最终步措而且不要试验好坏的策略。如果你进了包办婚姻,有好处,而且不存在这种情况:试一段时间,仅当某人喜欢后才向前推进。买卖必须先敲定,然后做你想做的事情。

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以下为《印度时报》读者的评论:



Anonymous
Very nice article, liked it very much, thanks for sharing the same keep posting more such articles, very useful and informative, very intersting

非常好的文章,十分喜欢,多谢让大家分享,继续发表这种文章,很有用又有知识性,很感兴趣

 
Avis (AZ)
Good article but not many takers.

好文章,但没多少人买帐。

 
vikasbajaj (Bangalore)
very true..nicely compiled..thanks for sharing

非常正确…写得好…感谢分享

 
Tapan11 (Unknown)
very good and helpful....... keep up the good work.......thanks

非常好,有帮助…继续…谢谢

 
ritu sharma (delhi)
v well written

写得很好

 
vikasbajaj (Bangalore)
Arranged marriages are safe bets................ .................... ....

包办婚姻是保险的下注…

 
naikshweta (Ind)
Agreed, arranged marriages are seen lasting long.

同意,包办婚姻经年持久,这个看得到。

 
Anthony Barbosa (Goa)
Love marriages are less successful than arranged marriages. If in doubt have an arranged marriage

恋爱婚姻不如包办婚姻那么成功。如果存疑就用包办婚姻

 
Sanatan Issar
But love marriage s are not always fail

可恋爱婚姻也不总失败

 
Riya2
nice article, very true about arrange marriage

关于包办婚姻说得真对

 
Tapan11
i will like to try this...thanks for sharing this art

我想要试试这个…感谢分享这一艺术

 
Prasanta9 (Unknown)
In arrange marriage the expectation's are low from both the sides .. so I think it is more successful

包办婚姻中双方的期望不高…因此我认为它更成功

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